Building Connection in Your Hybrid Team: Beyond Emails and Endless Meetings
- Tanya Hilts
- Jun 9
- 3 min read

Let's talk about something that's been on my mind lately – and probably yours too if you're managing a hybrid team. You know that feeling when you're trying to keep everyone connected, but it feels like you're just adding more meetings to already packed calendars? Yeah, I've been there.
Here's the thing: giving your hybrid team the autonomy and flexibility they crave while still maintaining that sense of togetherness isn't about scheduling another Zoom call. Trust me, your team is probably already "Zoomed out" as it is!
So what's the secret sauce? It's about fostering genuine emotional connection, team bonding, and – dare I say it – actually having some fun together. Let me share some strategies that have worked wonders for teams I've worked with.
Start with a Working Agreement
First things first – get your team together to create a working agreement. This isn't some corporate policy document gathering dust in a folder. This is a living, breathing agreement where each team member gets to voice their needs. When do they do their best work? How often do they actually need to meet face-to-face versus virtually? What communication style works best for them?
When everyone has input into how the team operates, you're not just managing people – you're empowering them to manage themselves while supporting each other. It's beautiful when it clicks.
Check-Ins That Actually Matter
Regular check-ins are crucial, but I'm not talking about those dreaded "touching base" meetings that could have been an email. Mix it up! Sometimes it's a quick chat message, sometimes it's an email, and yes, sometimes it's a real-time phone or video call. The key is making these check-ins meaningful and personal, not just task-focused.
Ask how they're really doing. Listen for what they're not saying. These moments of genuine connection are what keep teams strong when they're physically apart.
Plan Strategic In-Person Time
Here's where you get strategic about your in-person time. Don't waste precious face-to-face moments on updates that could happen virtually. Save your offsites and in-person gatherings for the heavy collaboration work – the brainstorming sessions, the problem-solving marathons, the projects that really benefit from being in the same room.
Celebrate the Small Wins
In a traditional office, you'd catch those little moments – the smile when someone finishes a tough project, the nod of appreciation when a colleague helps out. In hybrid work, we lose those nonverbal cues that make people feel valued.
So we need to be intentional about celebration. Praise your team members frequently and specifically. Call out the small wins, not just the big victories. Make appreciation visible and vocal.
Get Creative with Shared Experiences
This is where the fun comes in! Why not arrange for your team to watch a virtual performance together? Or how about having everyone order the same type of meal and eat "together" on a video call?
I've seen teams do virtual cooking classes, online escape rooms, even synchronized coffee breaks where everyone tries a new local café and shares their experience. The goal is creating shared memories and experiences, even when you're miles apart.
The Bottom Line
Managing a hybrid team isn't about finding the perfect balance between in-person and remote work – it's about being intentional with every interaction. It's about recognizing that flexibility and autonomy don't mean isolation, and togetherness doesn't require everyone to be in the same physical space.
Your team wants to feel connected, valued, and part of something bigger than their individual tasks. Give them that, and you'll have a hybrid team that's not just productive, but genuinely happy to work together.
What strategies have worked for your hybrid team? I'd love to hear your experiences!
Until next time,

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